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The Problem With Waiting For Someday

Updated: Jun 19, 2024



Your reality doesn't change until you change it. Most people don't understand this, and they live their lives from a place of powerlessness because of it.


Let's talk about it.


How many people do you know who are spending their lives just waiting?

Waiting for that guy to change his ways. Waiting for a new opportunity to come in. Waiting for “the right time” to buy that house or start that business.


So many people spend their time waiting. Because they aren’t willing to change [their mind] until their reality does.

They aren’t willing to proclaim their millionaire status to the world, yet… because they barely have enough money for rent. They aren’t willing to boldly see themselves as a powerful CEO or powerhouse in their career field because they aren’t that well known, yet… or because they haven’t made enough money for the brand new Mercedes yet.

They spend their lives talking about how they wish things could be. Or even how good things will get… someday.

Someday. Someday. Someday.

Little do they know: the time they spend telling the story that the good things will happen to them “someday in the future” is time spent simultaneously telling the story that the good things aren’t happening to them right here, and right now.

So what happens?

When they spend their time telling the story that the good things aren’t happening right now… or that the time to take action or move towards their goals isn’t here, yet… they are calling in more and more experiences to confirm this for them. They are calling in more job applications that get turned down. And more loan applications that get turned down. And more potential clients who can't afford them. And more romantic interests that don't work out. And more of whatever else it is that they don't want but aren't willing to release before their reality shifts.

Surprise, surprise: you’re not calling in millions of dollars while you focus on the fact that you’re not making the money that you desire, yet.


You are always attracting. You are attracting ideas. And experiences. And people. And everything. Attracting doesn't only happen when you are "trying new manifestation techniques." Attracting happens all of the time, 24/7.


It's not about a strategy. It's about your energy. Most people aren't aware of the energy that they are embodying from moment to moment. And when you're in the energy of "someday I'll get the thing that I desire," you're not magnetizing what you want into your life. You're pushing it away. That's the problem with waiting for "someday."


Most people wait until their reality shifts to change how they see themselves. They wait until they get the job before they are willing to see themselves in a higher position. They wait until they get more clients or sales before they are willing to see themselves as wildly successful.

But that’s not how the deliberate co-creation of your reality works. Deliberate co-creation of your reality happens when you consciously decide to shift how you see, think, and feel about yourself before anything in your reality has shifted. When you deliberately shift your mindset, your reality must change.

Afterall, your reality is a reflection of your thoughts.

And doing life this way… deliberately co-creating your reality… believing it before seeing it… it’s not for the faint of heart.

As Amanda Frances once said, "it gets real out here."

There are times when it looks like it's not working and you've got to activate your faith. There are times when you have to say "fuck the 3D" and believe that what you want is yours, anyway. There are times when your nervous system is so activated, because this new level of safety and security is so foreign to you, that it feels like you're going to throw up.

And in those times, you've got to put a lot of spiritual and mindset practices and concepts into play. And then you've got to do that work again. And again. And again.

And then it shows up. It shows up in your reality. I promise it does. I'm living it, girl! I am on the other side of so many prayers with so many other manifestations in progress. And I'm more confident than ever before.

Believe me when I tell you that it is worth it. This work is worth it.

My business has made money every single day for the past several days. And it’s because I’ve been living in the state of consistent, easy cash flow and sales for the past several months. Holding the faith. Holding the vibe. Utilizing the power of my focus and energy.

One way that I’ve shifted my focus and energy is through the use of meditation.

Now, meditation was off putting to me for a long time. I’ve used it to do different things over the years to work with the reservations I had around sitting and "doing nothing but breathing".

Lots of things have worked; like using meditations to release old patterns and burst through blocks.

Most recently, I’ve been using it to tap into the vibrations of what I desire. And my favorite kinds of meditations are ones that I can do quickly and easily. The truth is that I don’t want to sit for 20 minutes doing meditation. And focussing on your desired state for as little as 17 seconds begins to attract your desire to you. So why not meditate for shorter periods of time?

Recently, I got a meditation album from one of my mentors, and the meditations are short and sweet and impactful. I love them so much that I decided to do my own take!

This week, I am launching the “Success, Safe, & Secure” Meditation Bundle!

The bundle was designed to help you tap into the vibrations of your desired, most successful self. With 7 meditations, all between 5 and 8 minutes long, this album will help you shift your focus and vibration to that in alignment with your most empowered, successful self. In this album, you’ll tap into your own internal guidance, you’ll feel feelings of deep safety and security, and you’ll experience a feeling of clarity and confidence in your talents & abilities like never before.

The meditation bundle includes 7 downloadable tracks:

  1. The Precious Child of God

  2. Opening Your Door to Abundance

  3. Receiving The Money You Desire

  4. Seeing Yourself Succeed

  5. The Version Of You Who Has It All

  6. The Confident, Capable You

  7. The Royal Treatment

With each track, you’ll tap into the vibrations of:

  1. Being deeply and completely supported and looked after by God. You’ll use this to feel safe and supported while you’re holding the vision and keeping your faith while your reality shifts. Sometimes, getting more money and success can trigger your fears. This meditation helps you understand and embody the feeling of safety and security. Something bigger has got your back. It is safe to be in this new level. It is safe to receive.

  2. Allowing yourself to receive unlimited abundance and cashflow. Consciously step into your power. You’ll use this meditation to step into your power, consciously opening your own door to abundance, getting used to receiving, and seeing the numbers on your bank account easily change for the better.

  3. Receiving the exact amount of money you are choosing to manifest. Tap into the vibration of getting exactly what you want. No strings attached. Coming right to you. Easy pease. Signed, sealed, and delivered. The money you want is yours. Use this meditation to normalize receiving your desired amount of money.

  4. Being on the other side of your struggle or worry. You’ll use this meditation to see yourself successful and celebrating. When we’re facing a challenge or struggle, one of the best things to do is see ourselves on the other side. That’s what this meditation will help you do. From the energy of being on the other side of your struggle, you will attract solutions and miracles.

  5. The version of yourself who has it all. In this meditation, you’ll connect with the desired version of you. You’ll see what they’re up to; and you’ll receive advice from them. What did they do to get you to where they are? What better person to ask than them?

  6. The version of yourself who has everything you desire. This isn’t about your life immediately after you’ve manifested your next level of success. This is about the version of you who has lived it for some time, now. They have the success that you think must be hard to achieve or difficult to maintain. And they handle it with ease. It’s no big deal, really. #NBD They are a total boss. You’ll use this meditation to tap into their energy. You’ll become comfortable having the success that you desire; and confident in your ability to handle it.

  7. What it feels like to be a priority. In your next level of success, you’re making more than enough money. You’ve got a new lifestyle. Your needs are always responded to and met, speedily. In this meditation, you’ll tap into the version of yourself who understands that this is how life was meant to be for you. You were made to be pampered and supported. Life for everyone else is just better when you’re pampered and supported. In this meditation, you’ll feel the feelings of being the world’s priority; and you’ll feel the gratification of how your pampered lifestyle supports everyone you come in contact with. Trust me, it totally does.

Here’s the thing: words don’t attract things to us. It’s not about the things that we say, it’s about the energy that we embody.

For example, you might know, in theory, that you deserve to be taken care of. But in your day-to-day life, you subconsciously feel unworthy. You feel like no one can take care of you. Or you secretly think that no one wants to take care of you. But when you show up in that energy, you call more experiences to yourself that make you feel unworthy; regardless of how many times you talk about how things should be different.

Meditation is a powerful tool that you can use to shift unhelpful energetic patterns like that one. When you use meditation to tap into the vibration of your desire, you shift your vibration, magnetizing new, desired experiences to you.

So when you sit in these meditations, and you tap into the energy of being a pampered royal, you are magnetizing the real-life experiences of a pampered royal to yourself. Yes, it gets to be that easy.

And as you continue to meditate, your dominant vibration shifts to one that is naturally in alignment with that which you desire. Doing the work to release the pain is one part. Doing the work to feel good and safe and worthy is another part. That’s what this bundle will help you with. These quick, simple meditations are a nearly addictive way to incorporate meditation into your daily mindset/healing practice. Give yourself 21 days to shift significantly. From these consistent, daily changes in your energy, you’ll attract new ideas, new perspectives, and new experiences!

This bundle will work best for the person who is simultaneously doing the mindset, healing work to identify and shift their limiting beliefs. During your meditations, resistance may come up. Having the tools necessary to work through that resistance is imperative to your ability to shift completely into a new dominant vibration, or way of being. On the positive side, the more you tap into the vibration of your next level of success, the easier it will be for you to see things differently: receiving inspirations and experiencing the bridge of events that takes you from where you are to where you want to be! These meditations were created to assist you in living in the end state of your desired experience so that it’s easier for you to make choices in the world that are in alignment with what you are choosing to call in!

The album is currently in its pre-sale period. It’ll be $7 until Thursday. You will receive access to the contents of your album when it’s published on Thursday, August 3rd.

I’d love to have you inside! Click the link below to learn more and enroll.


Thanks so much for reading this far! If you're new here, it's nice to meet you!


I'm Nathallie Hughes: a mindset, manifestation coach. I help women go from feeling powerless and insecure about themselves to feeling confident and empowered enough to create emotionally fulfilling lives! I'm so happy that you've found your way into my world. You're going to love it here.


As a gift, I'd love to offer you my "6 Steps from Stuck To Self Aware" Bundle! In this free bundle, you'll learn my signature 6 step process for identifying any limiting belief. It's a must have for your personal development collection; after all, we can't shift limiting beliefs that we don't know exist.






I love you so much!


I’ll talk to you again soon,


NathHughes

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